Training

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Guides and upcoming webinars

Guide to managing reactivity

Free to download.

This standalone guide is designed to help you notice, unpack, and shift your own patterns of reactivity. 

It includes an example of a scenario in the TIMBBBBER framework and a self-directed workshop to guide you through your own scenario.

If you are a therapist looking for guidance to apply the framework, this guide can be a helpful first step. If you’d like to go deeper, I warmly invite you to watch one of the TIMBBBBER webinar recordings above.

 

Training videos

Mastering Reactivity using the TIMBBBBER framework

90 Day Viewing - £95

A two hour webinar for everyone on mastering reactivity using the TIMBBBBER framework.

We can all be reactive when we feel hurt or vulnerable, but our reactivity is often the single biggest force that destroys our relationships.

That’s why I’m excited to offer this 2 hour webinar introducing the TIMBBBBER framework—designed for anyone looking to reduce their own reactivity or support others in doing the same.

This tool is relevant to all of us. Whether you’re a partner, employer, friend, parent, or therapist, you’ll find it beneficial in mastering your own reactive patterns and using that insight to help others.

Join me to explore the TIMBBBBER framework— a practical and compassionate tool for recognising reactive patterns and moving beyond them. Designed to support individuals and couples, this approach helps deepen emotional connection and opens the door to more meaningful, authentic expression.

Intensive Couples Therapy - Part 1: A therapists guide

90 Day Viewing - £125

A 2.5-hour webinar for therapists on how to run Intensive Couples Therapy.

Six month’s worth of therapy in three days? This workshop explores the power and practice of Couples Intensives.

In this interactive webinar I share key principles, clinical insights, and practical strategies for designing and delivering intensive sessions that make a difference.  Drawing on extensive experience running intensive couples work I will explore:

  • the unique potential of intensives for momentum, containment and depth
  • what makes intensives different from weekly sessions and how to prepare yourself and your clients
  • structuring Intensives without loosing flexibility
  • common challenges and how to navigate them

Intensive Couples Therapy - Part 2: How to structure a couples intensive

90 Day Viewing - £125

Following the success of my first webinar on ‘Working with couples intensively’ (You can purchase part 1 recording via this link Intensive Couples Therapy – Part 1 – a therapists guide) there was an almost universal request to run a follow-up webinar that goes deeper.

This session will go deeper into how to structure the main body of an intensive, exploring experiential activities and exercises that help create real relational transformation.

Books

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The Reactivity Trap

Use TIMBBBBER to break free from the destructive cycle of emotional reactivity.
This book is under contract with W.W. Norton & Company for publication in 2027

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Me, You and Us

A guide for couples on how to have an intimate couple relationship.

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Therapy Intensives

A clinician's guide on the transformative power of working intensively with individuals and couples.

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